henryf
Well-known member
Hi there RupertAlthough our current waters mean that most nights are at marinas and we never drink at sea, we have almost always anchored most nights before that. And we do get very drunk at anchor and once or twice have had to make decisions when an unexpected gust comes in or once when our stern was getting very close to the boat behind.
Like you I would move if I felt an anchorage might be unsafe but that decision would tend to be made 24 hours before. But stopping drinking with the evening meal at anchor (or ashore and dinghy back) would be too big a lifestyle change.
From the outside looking in at your comments it strikes me you might want to consider getting professional help for your drinking problem.
You get very drunk at anchor on a boat that at the best of times needs you alert to spot incidents and potential danger.
Staying sober when there is a chance you might need to move the boat is not an option in your mind.
I really hope we don't read about you as a statistic at some point.
My concern is genuine and not intended as a dig or to be antagonistic. I can tell you first hand that not drinking booze to the point of getting drunk or indeed not drinking at all doesn't preclude you from grabbing life by the horns and having a great time so please don't feel it would be the end of life as you know it.
Good luck